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Be the Guiding Light!

By Organisation Development Division
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Food for Thought:

1. How well do you think you know your students? What do you think your students are passionate about in school and outside of school?
 
2. Recall an incident when you helped a student through a difficult period. What was most memorable from that experience? What would you have done differently if you had to do it all over again?
 
3. Was there someone who helped you find your voice when you were a student or when you were a beginning teacher? What special qualities did this person possess?
 
Teachers have a great impact on the lives of their students. Whether we like it or not, students look up to us as role models. Hence, it is crucial that we are able to inspire them to find a voice of their own that is unique, informed and unwavering.

In the previous article, we concentrated on the first half of Stephen Covey’s 8th Habit — Find Your Voice and Inspire Others to Find Theirs. In this article, we hope to share some ideas on how we can inspire students to find their own voice, a voice that will guide them in life.

(Click on each item to read more.)
Relate
A popular belief suggests that generational gaps hinder the way we relate to our students. Do you think this is true? Perhaps one way to get around this is to try to get in touch with what drives our students. Relate to them at their level.

For example, ask them about the newest PlayStation games in town (at which point, you will most definitely be greeted by mischievous smiles followed by an enthusiastic gushing of the coolest games out there). Then ask them what it is about the game that arouses their interest. Do they admire a certain character because of the qualities that he/she embodies? This could be a starting point to deeper conversations about self-discovery and aspirations.
Guide & Co-create
It seems that our young, especially those in their teens, are ‘pre-programmed’ to be anti-authority and anti-institution. Well, all of us have been through that period in our lives when we were constantly engulfed by identity issues, peer pressure and parental expectations. The last thing we wanted then was for adults to exert their authority on us and to tell us how much more they know than we do.

Little has changed in this regard today. So perhaps we could guide and co-create with our students rather than impose our perceptions on them. This means offering suggestions rather than ultimatums and extending assistance rather than solutions. Helping them to find their voice means helping them to grow through making their own decisions and taking responsibility for their actions.
Question
Ask our students pointed questions instead of telling them what to do. For example, instead of telling a student that she should not waste her time making cards and presents for her pop idol, try asking her what she hopes to achieve through her efforts. We could also ask her what she has learnt from her pop idol which could potentially affect what she wants to do with her life in future.

 
At the end of the day, the guidance we provide our students should affirm their worth and potential. Building their sense of self-worth is definitely key to helping them find their own voice. Only when they are able to relate to us and feel personally for what we advocate can our advice be effective.

Click here to read about the responses from fellow teachers
RESPONSES FROM FELLOW TEACHERS
We asked a few teachers for their reflections on our article and questions under our Food for Thought section. These are their contributions. We hope they inspire you to also share your thoughts!
“The concept ‘one-size-fits-all’ cannot exist when it comes to my students. One of the teacher’s greatest challenges is to find the strength of an individual child and develop that strength to its fullest potential. I realise we cannot expect all students to only excel academically. In these few years of teaching, I have also learnt to avoid making assumptions about my students because often, these assumptions proved to be inaccurate. It is amazing how my students are willing to learn from me when they realise how much I’m willing to learn from them. They have so much drive and passion, which, when given the right opportunities, will definitely surface!”

Mdm M N Lafrieda, Teacher, Seng Kang Secondary School
“I was once very inspired by the tenacity and drive of the Vice-President of the Students' Council in my JC. He came from a similar family background as mine – single-parent and with one sibling. Some teachers felt that he was not as bright as the others and therefore would not make it to the top. Then, he suffered a big blow when he failed to qualify for the 'S' papers. As his teacher mentor, and also as someone who could identify with him as a student struggling to compete among the brightest, I found my inner voice and conscience calling me to continually boost his confidence. I helped him to discover his aspirations and monitored his performance in various aspects. I wanted to see him ‘sparkle’, like a rough diamond that has been polished to shine. I was so happy when he managed to secure his 'S' papers. He caught almost everyone by surprise when he became a President’s and an Overseas SAF Scholar, beating even the strongest contender!”

Mrs Nicholas Ng, a Junior College teacher
“I will not be who I am today without my inspiring teachers! Indeed, my teachers had inspired, guided and showered me with their love and compassion when I was a student. To me, my secondary school years were the most crucial and unforgettable because it was then that I built up a strong foundation in various domains of my student life. This foundation has put me in good stead to excel in my undergraduate studies as well as in the army. I can still recall vividly the uncountable hours that my dedicated teachers spent educating and nurturing me. They had been more than just educators; they were my "friends" who cared. Their unconditional love and willingness to give have motivated me to do likewise, if not more. As an educator now, I strive to know my students better, capitalise on opportunities to inspire them and share my experiences and thoughts with them, so that they, too, will be moved and committed to strive to develop themselves holistically.”

Mr Toh Chee Keong, HOD (Pupil Development/CCA), Seng Kang Secondary School


Reference
1. Stephen R. Covey. 2004. The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness. New York: Simon & Schuster.


 
     

 


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